Clergyman, Kingsley Okonkwo, has reacted to the viral video of a bridesmaid who took center stage at her friend’s wedding with her boobs-revealing dress.
The video made the rounds on social media last weekend. Read here.
The pastor in his post tackled the bride, the bridesmaid, the man who sprayed the boobs-revealing bridesmaid as well as the elders at the event. Read his post below
No disrespect to the parties involved(this is purely for teaching purposes)
2–These are my opinions, be free to have yours, as an elder I feel I should address for those that want to learn
To the bride-
- why are you keeping a friend that doesn’t “look” like she’s on same page with you, most of the other girls are decently dressed
- Even if she is your friend does she have to be on your train
- when she arrived half naked, you could have benched her
- She was not only half naked but was dancing with intention, for me – wrong intention
To the half naked friend-
- There’s something called decency, learn it
- There’s social maturity – allow people shine on their day and don’t divert attention even when you can, respect peoples feelings
To the spraying man
- Can we keep lust and foolishness till after the wedding?
- Even if she was your girlfriend, wife or sister, the timing was wrong
To other parents and elders at the event
- Hope one of you corrected the friend and corrected the situation
- Keeping quiet at such means approval and more people will think it’s OK
To the camera man
- Don’t be silly – stay focused if you still want your balance
To me and my IG fam
- What concern us in this matter….. Well good behavior is fast becoming a thing of the past, let’s preserve the small sense still left, Nigeria has lost so much let’s help where we can
