At first it was just the occasional night when our daughter woke up and came in, but now it’s become pretty much every night. Coleen can you help?

My wife and I are in our 30s and have one daughter, who’s recently turned two.

My problem is, my wife lets our daughter sleep in our bed at night, which means I usually get out and go to the spare room.

At first it was just the occasional night when our daughter woke up and came in, but now it’s become pretty much every night.

However, I’m exhausted from sleeping on a bad mattress and, more importantly, our sex life is virtually non-existent.

I’d love your opinion.