Braunwyn Windham-Burke has an interesting and unique home life, that’s for sure. But if it works out for her family, more power to ’em!

We’re just wondering whether a new development that went down over the weekend involving her husband, Sean, may be a little hypocritical — especially considering the fact that Braunwyn, a lesbian, is openly dating a woman while still married to the guy!

On Sunday morning, a Real Housewives of Orange County fan account re-posted video of an Instagram question and answer session the reality TV personality and her husband had held earlier in the weekend. During the Q&A, followers asked about Braunwyn’s coming out and her decision to simultaneously stay married to Sean.

At one point, someone asked the big question we’re all kind of wondering about (below):

Good question, considering Windham-Burke herself kind of opened the flood gates on this whole open marriage thing, ya know?! The Orange County resident answered quickly and firmly, though, telling the commenter:

Wow! So… she can date, but he can’t?! That seems a little hypocritical, doesn’t it??

Obviously, even with what we do know, the public probably isn’t aware of every detail of this pair’s unique situation. And so there could be more variables at play here! But if she’s mature enough to date outside their marriage and continue their relationship together, wouldn’t it be logical that she allowed him the same freedom?! Just saying!!

To be fair, Sean did address his dating life at one point in the video, though — by asking and answering his own question (below):

OK, so, it seems like dating could at least be on the table. And to Braunwyn’s credit, later in the video, she actually did admit she wasn’t playing fair by having her dating life while not yet being OK if Sean were to have his:

Shoot, at least she’s honest! FWIW, Sean did also confess he was “hurt” by the fact that Braunwyn had a girlfriend, saying:

Hmmm… sounds like these two have quite a bit more to figure out in therapy.